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BEING HELD HOSTAGE BY AN ERECTION

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I know several men who are in relationships, have committed crimes, currently in prison, ruined relationships, have no relationship, and chosen to never grow up because they’ve allowed their sexual needs to rule their lives. Men think women can be controlled and manipulated by sex, but they are the ones who allow sex to dictate their lives. Men have married, had children based on a woman that makes them stand at attention.

So now you have men with wives they don’t like and children they wish they didn’t have. All based on a physical attraction. The word of GOD says to choose someone with whom you are evenly yoked. We have freewill. Few of us choose with our heart and mind. We only choose with our eyes and physical attraction. How many decisions would be made differently if you prayed for guidance and it wasn’t about who turned you on? Don’t get me wrong. Women are guilty too. We don’t want to be with someone unless he’s fine and he makes our panties wet. I remember a friend telling …

MY ANSWER TO: ACT LIKE A LADY THINK LIKE A MAN

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To assume that one man can speak for all men is too presumptuous. It borders on arrogance. I read the book by Steve Harvey several years ago when it first came out. As a daughter I think what he delivers (advice) is admirable. I wish I could have had those conversations with my own Father. But one size does not fit all.

Some of the things he says made perfect sense. Others are predicated on the notion that every man approaches life and relationships in the same manner. A man who was raised in a two-parent home is going to think totally differently than a man who was raised by a single Mother, or single parent. Having a Father in the home is going to make him a different man. The way he treats a woman will be completely different. As human beings we learn by example. Hard to miss what you haven’t had. Remember I’m the one that proposed “Can a Woman Raise a Boy to be a Man?” (http://tellittovenus.blogspot.com/2010/03/can-woman-raise-boy-to-be-man.html). It’s even harder to giv…