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1.Real men cook.

2.Real men cry.

3.Real men raise children.

4.Real men take responsibility.

5.Real men fight when there’s something to fight for.

6.Real men love their wives.

7.Real men know how to love just one woman.

8.Real men get married.

9.Real men have families.

10.Real men help in the house.

11.Real men go to work.

12.Real men teach by example.

13.Real men are head of the household.

14.Real men love.

15.Real men are World Leaders.

16.Real men attract real women.

17.Real men teach boys to be men.

18.Real men change their home, street, community, city, state, country, and world.

19.Real men wear their pants on their waist.

20.Real men don’t follow trends they set them.

*Last but not least; real men love GOD.


The Serenity Prayer

God grant me the serenity
to accept the things I cannot change;
courage to change the things I can;
and wisdom to know the difference.
Living one day at a time;
Enjoying one moment at a time;
Accepting hardships as the pathway to peace;
Taking, as He did, this sinful world
as it is, not as I would have it;
Trusting that He will make all things right
if I surrender to His Will;
That I may be reasonably happy in this life
and supremely happy with Him
Forever in the next.
--Reinhold Niebuhr

Where do I start? I’m at a turning point in my life that many of us have to deal with. When do we say, “No more!” It doesn’t matter if it’s business, a relationship, or even our family dynamic. Everyone has their breaking point. I’m at mine. Here are some points that have drawn me to the conclusion it’s TIME TO LET GO.

1.When you don’t remember why you loved this person it’s TIME TO LET GO.

2.When you realize you don’t even like this person anymore and you can’t manage…


Are we monogamous by nature? Is it a misconception or a tradition we’re expected to practice? Lately I’m rethinking my ideas and understanding of a relationship. One thing is a constant; GOD has to be the foundation. As a woman we’re taught that marriage and sex go hand in hand. You can’t have one without the other. You give your body only to your husband. To engage in sex or intimacy without the benefit of marriage is sacrilegious. It is a sin against self, a sin against your GOD.

What becomes confusing is the conflict with your heart, your beliefs, and even your body. If you think back to the first time you got those butterflies you were probably a child, maybe a teenager. It was overwhelming. You couldn’t articulate your feelings. For me personally, I remember being so into my first boyfriend that I didn’t know how to let go of it later in life. I did have an incident where I had this strange banter with a friend/business associate. To be perfectly honest, I was sure he hated m…