WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR HIM TO PUT A RING ON IT?
The “Battle of the Sexes” is alive and well. Everyone is trying to one-up each other. I’m competing with other women for some guy’s attention. Even the people I consider friends are competing against me for some random guy’s attention. The guys want to prove their masculinity by proving how many women they can conquer or should I say juggle? We equate masculinity by how many women he has slept with. Women, you’re an absolute slut if you have slept with all these men. A man claims he wants a promiscuous woman in bed, but would never think of this same woman as wife material.
Women have been encouraged to pursue their education, and some have encouraged their daughters to find husbands on campus. What about independence? Earning her degree to create her own security? Then there’s the school of thought that a man doesn’t want a career woman because she’s thought to be too independent. Which one is it? What the hell do you want? I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t. What do I tell my daughter? As a Mother I want her to have happiness, but I can’t define that for her. It’s about balance. It’s a long needed overdue conversation.
Men, what do you want and what are you looking for?! No, there is no relationship book that explains you away. If this manual existed every woman in the free world would be using it as a guide and resource. I want to know. I’m not the only one. Just like there are some men that have a weakness; I have my own, men! I love men. I find you fascinating, mysterious, and intriguing. After spending some time devoted to my blog I find myself no closer to the answers. The more I think we understand each other the further apart we’ve become. How do we come to an understanding? I’m going to scratch what I’ve learned so far and start over.
I use to think men and women wanted the same things, but now I’m not so sure. Follow @TellVenus