WHAT WOULD YOU DO FOR HIM TO PUT A RING ON IT?

What would you do to get that precious wedding ring? Would you put out or hold back? Be the “good girl” or the “saucy siren”? We laugh about people sending their representative and then the real person shows up when you think you’ve got them. So you don’t want to be the “baby mama”, but you realize now that a child was no guarantee that he would make you his wife. Okay so let’s go back to the playbook. How about the ultimatum? That’s a sure way to lose him. Who told us this stupid stuff? I’m sorry, but not every man is the same and every woman is different. You can’t follow a set of rules and instructions to win the game and that coveted ring. This is not a sports event. And it’s not about strategy and who scores the most points.

The “Battle of the Sexes” is alive and well. Everyone is trying to one-up each other. I’m competing with other women for some guy’s attention. Even the people I consider friends are competing against me for some random guy’s attention. The guys want to prove their masculinity by proving how many women they can conquer or should I say juggle? We equate masculinity by how many women he has slept with. Women, you’re an absolute slut if you have slept with all these men. A man claims he wants a promiscuous woman in bed, but would never think of this same woman as wife material.

Women have been encouraged to pursue their education, and some have encouraged their daughters to find husbands on campus. What about independence? Earning her degree to create her own security? Then there’s the school of thought that a man doesn’t want a career woman because she’s thought to be too independent. Which one is it? What the hell do you want? I’m damned if I do and damned if I don’t. What do I tell my daughter? As a Mother I want her to have happiness, but I can’t define that for her. It’s about balance. It’s a long needed overdue conversation.

Men, what do you want and what are you looking for?! No, there is no relationship book that explains you away. If this manual existed every woman in the free world would be using it as a guide and resource. I want to know. I’m not the only one. Just like there are some men that have a weakness; I have my own, men! I love men. I find you fascinating, mysterious, and intriguing. After spending some time devoted to my blog I find myself no closer to the answers. The more I think we understand each other the further apart we’ve become. How do we come to an understanding? I’m going to scratch what I’ve learned so far and start over.

I use to think men and women wanted the same things, but now I’m not so sure.

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  1. MEN, WOMEN, PEOPLE THINK THEY KNOW IT ALL BUT HAVE THE NERVE TO ASK WHY WHEN YOUR SITUATION FAILS. THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN WE BECOME LOVERS OF SELF THINKING WE KNOW BETTER THAN GOD WHEN SET FORTH RULES TO FOLLOW TO PROTECT YOU FROM THE VERY HURT YOU NOW FEEL. WOMEN, YOU ARE RECEIVERS SO IT'S YOUR JOB TO GUARD YOUR GATES. ONCE YOU RECEIVE YOU TEND TO GET ATTACHED EMOTIONALLY, SO YOU GOTTA PICK THE RIGHT ONE OR YOU. TO DO THIS, KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED SO YOU CAN HEAR YOUR HEART CLEARLY. I ALWAYS LIKE USING THE LION AS EXAMPLE. THE FEMALE ONLY MATES WITH THE MOST SUITABLE MALE. IN THEIR CASE THE MALES FIGHT IT OUT FOR THE RIGHT TO MATE. HUMAN MALES RIGHT TO MATE SHOULD INCLUDE MEETING YOUR EMOTIONAL, FINANCIAL, SPIRITUAL NEEDS COUPLED W/ A WILLINGNESS TO MARRY! HELLO! THE TEN COMMANDMENTS IS THE GARDEN OF EDEN. FOLLOW THEM AND HE WILL KEEP YOU IN PERFECT PEACE. BREAK THEM AND SORROW FOLLOWS YOU JUST LIKE ADAM AND EVE! NOT BECAUSE GOD IS PUNISHING YOU BUT BECAUSE GOD KNOWS WHAT COULD HAPPEN IF WE DIDN'T. HE CARED ENOUGH TO GIVE US A BLUEPRINT TO KEEP US FROM TROUBLE. FOR SOME REASON WE KEEP RUNNING TO IT THOUGH..... THERES RULES TO THIS SH$T! DON'T CRY WHEN YOU GET A RESULT OF BREAKING 'EM - King

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    1. King would you mind if I shared the answer you gave? I thought it was excellent!!!

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