REAL ISH: TRUTH NEVER NEEDS TO BE DEFENDED


This all started with a Facebook post: "Men are natural born leaders. A woman of substance will follow a man after GOD'S heart." ~Veela aka Venus

You may not like it. You might not even agree with it, but I'm going to tell you the TRUTH. Like the Word of GOD; it does not change and it stands forever. If you're looking for the sugar-coated version then you've come to the wrong place. Be real! You don't think I'm chastised and convicted by my own words? When GOD gives me a Word I give it to you just as it was given. Below is a comment by my Brother and Author; Terence Blackett. It is my charge to share the knowledge. We are growing together. When you know better you do better.




by Terence M. Blackett

Let me throw a "SPANNER" into the works: In 1972 Esther Vilar (a woman!) published a book called "THE MANIPULATED MAN". It was reprinted in 1998. Since she wrote the book, more than 30 years ago, she continually received death threats from various women's groups; Here's an excerpt from VILAR'S book:

"Constant self-abasement in the presence of men has led women to develop a secret language which other women understand but which is incomprehensible to men, since they take it literally. It would, therefore, be a great advantage to men to hold the key to this code and so create a sort of dictionary for themselves. Then, whenever they heard a standard phrase, they could decipher its real meaning. Here are a few examples, with a translation into male language..."

CODED
A man must be able to protect me.
DECODED
A man must be able to spare me from all forms of discomfort. (What else could he protect her from? Robbers? An atom bomb?)

CODED
I need a man to make me feel secure
DECODED
Above all, he must keep his money worries to himself.

CODED
I must be able to look up to a man
DECODED
To be a possible candidate as a husband, he must be more intelligent, responsible, courageous, industrious and stronger than I am. Otherwise, what purpose would he serve?

CODED
Of course I would give up my career if my husband asked me.
DECODED
Once he is earning enough money, I am never going to work again.

CODED
The only thing I want in life is to make him happy
DECODED
I will do everything in my power to stop him from knowing how much I exploit him.

CODED
I will never bother him with trivial problems.
DECODED
I'll do anything rather than keep him away from his work.

CODED
I am there for him alone.
DECODED
No other man has to work for me.

CODED
In future I shall devote my life to my family.
DECODED
I'm not going to lift another finger for the rest of my life... It's his turn now.

CODED
I don't believe in Women's Liberation.
DECODED
I'm not such a fool. I'd rather let a man do the work for me.

CODED
After all, we are living in an age of equality.
DECODED
If he thinks he can order me about, just because he earns money for me, he is sorely mistaken.

CODED
I'm so bad at doing things like that.
DECODED
That's a job he will have to do. What's he there for, anyway?

CODED
He knows absolutely everything.
DECODED
He even serves the function of an encyclopedia.

CODED
If a couple really love eachother, there is no need to get married at once.
DECODED
He is being a bit obstinate, but I'll soon get him around in bed.

CODED
I love him.
DECODED
He is an excellent workhorse.

Have a read@: http://dontmarry.files.wordpress.com/2008/08/the_manipulated_man.pdf

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