BELIEVE IN LOVE OR BELIEVE IN NOT BEING ALONE?
Open relationships? Facebook relationship status? Take it for what it's worth. Being "open" means being vulnerable to parasites, and saboteurs. Anyone signing up for such a relationship is a masochist and lacks self-love; let alone reciprocate love. Those in "complicated" relationships are probably unaware that they are in an "open relationship."
*Below are some of the answers spurred by my Facebook status. Ask and you shall receive.
The Best Response
Most folk have no idea what a relationship is or should be. To me an "open" relationship is a relationship. If I can not be completely honest about me to the person I'm intimate with then were just F****ing around. Folk shouldn't be afraid to reveal the desires of their hearts and minds. Folk shouldn't be in it to play games or run game. If you start in the very beginning (like when you share the first drink or dance) what you are about and what you really want, you are able to not waste time with folk who are not suited for you! Don't be scared in the beginning, you have absolutely nothing to lose by telling the truth! If they run in the other direction thank them, if they continue to listen, then you ask all the questions you want answers to. If they are offended oh well, sobeit. If you listen to the meditations of your heart you will know when someone is not telling you the truth. Be ready for the truth. Getting to know folks is fun, you can keep your Veela Ammons, I agree with you the purest form and the most complimentary sex is the exchange of two evolved souls rooted in love! by Michele Tolbert Ploss