FROM A BLACK MAN’S PERSPECTIVE: WHAT DOES IT TAKE FOR A BLACK WOMAN TO GIVE ME WHAT I NEED WHEN THE OTHER RACES ARE SO WILLING? (THE REMIX!)
Fast forward three (3) years and he was gone! Was I surprised by the divorce? Who would have been? We sing the songs; we talk the talk, but it doesn’t happen. “Let me cater to you. ‘Cause baby this is your day. Do anything for my man. Baby you blow me away.” I think most black men would fall out if it happened. lol
Damn, this is not easy to write! What do you want baby? Do I need to truly cater to you? Do I need to have the house clean when you come home? Do I need your dinner cooked when you come from work? Do I need to give you some lovin’ when and how you like it? Maybe I need to do it all. I guess you just need to be loved.
Okay so I didn’t have the house clean. I didn’t cook dinner. And we both know we haven’t made love in a long time. So you left me. Okay she does everything you were missing at home. Somehow she’s learned to be submissive. And you like it. How could you not?
Not to stereotype, but she treats you like the King you are. I can’t compete with that. I was so busy learning how to be independent that I forgot that you were the head of household. It’s the natural order of things. She holds you in the highest esteem. You’re her man.
So I can’t fault you. She knows how to keep you coming. Every pun intended. She not only takes care of you, but she takes care of herself to keep you interested. There’s no shame in her game.
What does it take for you to come home? When she’s giving you everything you want and more it’s hard to compete.