Showing posts from January, 2011


Yesterday a close friend's Mother passed away. I had no words of comfort for his pain. All I could think about was who loves you like your one.

A child preparing to be born asked God,
“They tell me you are sending me to earth tomorrow, but how am I going to live there being so small and helpless?”
God answered, “Among the many angels, I chose one for you. She will be waiting for you and will take care of you.”

The child paused and again addressed God. “But tell me, here in Heaven, I don’t do anything else but sing and smile, that’s enough for me to be happy.”
“Your angel will sing for you and also smile for you every day and you will feel your angel’s love and be happy,” God replied.

“Oh,” the child said, “and how am I going to be able to understand the language that men speak?” And then, glancing at God the child asked, “What am I going to do when I want to talk to you?”
God softly touched the child on the head and said, “Your angel will place your hands together and …


I know we’ve talked about love. But where does that begin? Ever been with someone and it didn’t work out? You realized in the last moments of trying to resuscitate the relationship that you were never friends. Wow! It’s not only devastating to lose a relationship, but to know that “friendship” was never a foundation makes you wonder how you ever got together.

Friendship requires an unconditional commitment. Just like a solid marriage, you’re required to stay through the good and bad times. That’s the importance of having GOD as the foundation in all relationships. As your friend I may not agree with everything you say or do, but I would not abandon you based on our disagreements. Example: I have a close friend that I truly treasure. We don’t see each other that often, but when we do it’s always a good time. I always wonder why we don’t do it more often. Life happens and time gets away from us. Years ago we had a disagreement about something involving her family. We didn’t speak to ea…


As we go into this New Year it’s apparent to me that finding love or a relationship is not the end-all, be-all to life. My life encompasses so much more; as does yours. It’s hard to be all giddy and love-struck when the bills need to be paid, your children ain’t acting right, and your business or job isn’t going the way you planned. Welcome to the real world. I’m not saying that having a relationship isn’t comforting, but it isn’t the complete answer.

I started this blog as a way to work through some personal issues and address some things that were a constant conversation with friends. Don’t get me wrong. I want you to be happy and find love, but I want this forum to address the complete person. I don’t have all the answers. I am however; willing to reach out to experts in all areas and get their perspective.

From this day forward this blog will address any questions you may have. If I don’t know the answer I’ll find an expert that does. No subject is off limits. We have some great…