ARE YOU KIDDING? WHEN DID I BECOME ENEMIES WITH MY CHILDREN AND GOD?
1.Men have this unrepressed anger towards their Mothers and essentially blame them for being without a Father. (Does this apply to daughters too?)
2.Women are constantly in church and don’t want to date anyone outside the church; leaving them with a narrow margin of ever being in a relationship.
3.Black women have a greater chance of being hit by a car then ever getting married.
4.We come from the legacy of a single parent home; therefore we are unequipped to be in any type of relationship.
5.We are so different from men in our thinking that we can never see eye to eye.
6.Most good women have trouble marrying a decent guy.
7.Love you Steve Harvey, but when did you figure out what I needed or wanted?
8.Oh don’t let me forget; we’re all waiting for Denzel (or someone like him) to save us from ourselves.
9.Friend of mine wrote a book in which he theorized that the affects of slavery have been perpetuated and continue to cause issues in the way black men and women relate to each other. (There’s some truth in that.)
10.Women want marriage and men don’t.
11.If a woman is more successful than a man she is doomed to be alone.
Stop, stop please just stop!!! I’m tired of the histrionics. Am I divorced? Hell yes! And I’m sure my ex-husband is happy that I LOVED him enough to be honest that it was not working. We have a beautiful daughter. She may be the only reason we were meant to come together. That’s okay. It doesn’t make him or me any less suitable as a mate.
Right now I could go outside and scream at the top of my lungs. I’m tired of the failure rate. I am tired of being told that I will never find or be LOVED. I still believe in LOVE. It is a perfect and wonderful gift from GOD. I think instead of reiterating all the reasons we can’t find LOVE or be in a healthy relationship; we should start a list of why we were meant to succeed.
I’ll start the list and you continue it.
1.James 1:17 - Every good and perfect gift comes from above. (The CREATOR meant for us to be in relationship with each other; whether it is friendship or a LOVE relationship.