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TIME TO HIT THE PAUSE BUTTON: MY DECLARATION OF INDEPENDENCE

I just need to rant for a minute. Can people be who they say they are? If you approach me as friend or foe I would appreciate and respect honesty over anything else. I’ve wasted more time lately on people who are quick to tell me what they think I want to hear; rather than the TRUTH. I’d take the TRUTH over a lie any day. It’s easier to digest.

Everyone wishes that they could change something in their life. My life would be perfect if I had the money to do this or do that. My life would be great if I just had this. If only I was thinner, if I was richer, if I was taller…the list goes on. Too many times we put our life on hold patiently waiting for nothing. Why do we torture ourselves when time continues and we need to embrace life?

Too bad life isn’t like video. There are definitely a few things I’d rewind in my life. Hell, there are more than a few spots I’d like to edit/cut completely. I have to remember that GOD doesn’t make mistakes. We have free-will and sometimes GO…

ARE YOU KIDDING? WHEN DID I BECOME ENEMIES WITH MY CHILDREN AND GOD?

Recently I’ve heard all these theories and speculations on why I’m doomed to never have a relationship.

1.Men have this unrepressed anger towards their Mothers and essentially blame them for being without a Father. (Does this apply to daughters too?)

2.Women are constantly in church and don’t want to date anyone outside the church; leaving them with a narrow margin of ever being in a relationship.

3.Black women have a greater chance of being hit by a car then ever getting married.

4.We come from the legacy of a single parent home; therefore we are unequipped to be in any type of relationship.

5.We are so different from men in our thinking that we can never see eye to eye.

6.Most good women have trouble marrying a decent guy.

7.Love you Steve Harvey, but when did you figure out what I needed or wanted?

8.Oh don’t let me forget; we’re all waiting for Denzel (or someone like him) to save us from ourselves.

9.Friend of mine wrote a book in which he theorized that the affects of slavery ha…